Cousin Chart—How to Calculate Family Relationships

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Have you ever used a cousin chart when trying to figure out what to call your distant cousins? Even if you know what it means to be a second, third, or fourth cousin, it can sometimes be hard to visualize these relationships in real life.

The following cousin chart and other cousin-calculating methods will come in handy and provide the answers you're looking for!

Use the Cousin Chart

The cousin chart helps you calculate and figure out what to call your more distant cousins through a visual guide. Follow the steps below to use the chart.

Note: These cousin naming-conventions are primarily used in English-speaking societies and may be different in other languages and cultures.

StepsExamples
1. Identify the grandparents you and your cousin share.Your 5th great-grandparent is your cousin’s 7th great-grandparent.
2. On the horizontal line, find your shared grandparent. Your 5th great-grandparent.
3. On the vertical line, find your cousin’s shared grandparent. Your cousin’s 7th great-grandparent.
4. See where the lines intersect. You connect the lines and see that you are 6th cousins, 2x removed.

Use the Cousin Calculator

You can quickly figure out how you are related to your cousins with this fast and easy-to-use Cousin Calculator!

In the first box, select how you are related to the common ancestor. For example, if the common ancestor is your great-grandparent, select "great grandparent" from the first drop-down menu.

In the second box, select your cousin's relationship to the common ancestor. The calculator will use this information and tell you how you and you're cousin are related!

Calculate your relationship to another cousin based on a common ancestor.

The common ancestor is my:

The common ancestor is my relative's:

Your Relationship

Use Math to Calculate Family Relationships

If you enjoy math, you can use it to calculate your cousinship. First, answer the three questions below:

  1. Who is the common ancestor of my cousin and me?
  2. How many generations am I separated from this ancestor? How many generations is my cousin separated from this ancestor?
    • Tip: Count the number of "G's" in the common ancestor's title and add 1.
      • Your Grandparents (1G + 1 = 2) are 2 generations away
      • Your Great-Grandparents (2Gs + 1) are 3 generations away
      • Your Great-Great Grandparent (3Gs + 1 = 4) are 4 generations away
  3. Who is more removed (more generations away) from the common ancestor?
  4. The next steps will be different depending on how many generations both you and your cousin are from your common ancestor.
    1. You are both the SAME number of generations away from your common ancestor.
      Your cousin is FEWER generations away from your common ancestor than you are.
      Your cousin is MORE generations away from the common ancestor than you are.

Discover Your Family

What with all your second, third, and fourth cousins and grandaunts and granduncles, your family tree is much larger than just your direct line. Discover more about your family by starting your own family tree at FamilySearch.

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